Raising three children alone in the midst of difficulties, Maye Musk not only teaches children to be human but also inspires them to live positively with their own journey of being a brave and loving mother.

Elon Musk – one of the most famous and wealthy people on the planet, did not hesitate to share that the person he admired the most was his mother, Maye Musk. In many interviews, the billionaire affirmed: His successes today largely come from the teaching and influence of this special mother.

Not only Elon Musk, her other two children – Kimbal and Tosca – are both successful and wealthy individuals. From a single mother, Maye Musk has done something extraordinary: Raising three children to be human, pursuing different paths and all shining. In her autobiography “Living Riskily”, she shares three key principles in her motherhood journey that any parent can ponder and learn.

1. Let your child follow his hobbies

When parents are caught up in the expectation that “you have to be successful”, it is easy for them to ignore the natural interests and personalities that are growing within each child. Maye Musk is acutely aware of this. She does not impose her children to pursue an ideal model, but chooses to observe, encourage and encourage each child’s personal passion.

Once, when asked how to raise her children so successfully, she simply replied, “I just let them do what I want.” That humble answer actually reflects a profound upbringing philosophy.

Elon has been passionate about reading since childhood. When he was just 12 years old, he owned a computer, which was rare in 1983, and programmed a game himself. Maye encouraged her son to send the game to a tech magazine. The result: Elon was paid $500 – the first money he earned with his passion.

His second son, Kimbal – showed his love for food early on and was a regular in the kitchen. The youngest daughter – Tosca – is immersed in art, dance, performance, and music. Mrs. Maye not only sees those seeds but also helps her children nurture them with trust and unconditional support.

Currently, Elon Musk is a technology “tycoon” with rocket and electric vehicle projects. Kimbal is the owner of a popular restaurant chain, and Tosca is a Hollywood director and film producer. It is not only a personal success, but also a vivid demonstration of how to raise respect for individuality and passion.

Another time, when asked by a child, “What should I do when I grow up?”, Maye Musk gently replied:

“You don’t know where you’re going in the future, but gradually you’ll discover what you’re really interested in. Just focus on that, and then go with it.”

2. Teach children to learn to take responsibility from an early age

Independence and responsibility are two factors that Maye Musk always values when raising children. According to her, responsibility is not a burden but an opportunity for children to develop and mature. However, many modern parents often easily fall into the spiral of “doing everything for their children”, with the thought of “what do you know when you are young”, which inadvertently creates passive children who lack life skills.

Maye Musk became a single mother at the age of 31. The financial burden forced her to work multiple jobs at the same time. That situation has become a valuable opportunity for her children to learn to be independent. They take care of themselves, actively study without a mother.

Maye’s just enough letting go has helped her children develop discipline and a proactive spirit. Not only can they take care of themselves, they are also their mother’s “little assistant” when she is busy with work.

Maye Musk agrees with the views of the famous Chinese educator – Chen Heqian:

“What children can do on their own, they should be left to do it themselves.”

According to her, the most precious gift that parents can give their children is not unconditional provision, but the ability to be self-reliant and responsible for their own lives.

3. Don’t sacrifice your parents – Live your own life

In the concept of many Asian parents, “sacrificing for their children” is considered the highest expression of love. However, excessive sacrifice sometimes makes children feel pressured and guilty, especially when they see their parents give up their careers, joys, or even personal happiness for themselves.

Maye Musk is not such a mother. She sets an example for her children by living true to her values and always encourages them to live positively and proactively. According to her, parents should live their own lives first. Only when you feel full enough can you take care of your children in a healthy way.

After the divorce, Maye continued to develop her career. She had no intention of giving up her job for the sake of her children and, more importantly, she didn’t feel guilty about it.

“There’s no need to feel guilty. Instead of blaming the situation, teach children to look at life with a more positive attitude.”

During the difficult years, Maye was a single mother taking care of three children, running a nutrition consultant at home, and working as a part-time model. At the age of 48, she continues her studies and earns master’s and doctoral degrees – proving that women can do anything if they believe in themselves.

Although she once affirmed that “children are the most important part of my life”, she also understands that before becoming a good mother, she needs to be herself first. Only then can she inspire and help her children feel the true value of life.

Conclude

Maye Musk’s three parenting principles, which encourage the pursuit of passion, exercise independence, and live one’s own life – are not only educational advice, but also a profound message about parenthood in the modern era. Parents do not need to be omnipotent or sacrifice everything, but just be companions who trust and inspire their children with their own lives.